Internet friends… I’m tired. Tired to my core – fall asleep before my head hits the pillow – not even energized by a workout TIRED. It hit me this morning on my run that it’s been a whirlwind lately. Five months of training leading up to a marathon. A vacation just a few days after that. A family vacation two weeks after that. All of which I planned & packed & cooked for. Don’t get me wrong – November 2014 has been a blast, but it has also worn me out.
That’s not a good way to go into the busiest time of the year. I mean on top of all that extra stuff.. and the extra stuff that Christmas brings… I’ve still got a family to feed and hustle to & from practices and events. The errand running alone sometimes kills me. But something happened this week that gave me a boost of perspective even through my foggy, tired, befuddled mind. A special person whom I had the privilege of knowing unexpectedly passed away. I bet she’d give anything to be here exhausted while juggling the demands of a family. So, with her and her family in mind, I’m looking for blessings and grace:
In hugging an old friend and realizing that even with the passage of time, that friendship is still there
In warm soup and fresh bread with my entire family around the table
In digging out the Advent wreath and praying as a family
In twinkling lights that welcome my family home each day
‘Tis the season of watching and preparing. I’m hoping to step back next week – remembering something that popped up in a reflection I read yesterday: “People need time, time alone to open their hearts by letting go of everything else.” I’m hoping for some quiet time, some time to let go (of a few things at least) and time to be truly present.
(And I wouldn’t pass up the chance for some extra hours of sleep either.)
I have a 10yo who still believes in Santa. That’s a year longer than either of his sisters believed which I have to say surprises me. I always figured the youngest would find out the earliest. He seemed suspicious about the whole big man coming down the chimney last year but I pulled a couple tricks out of my sleeve and they worked. This year I sometimes sense suspicion in his conversation but I also sense a pretty strong belief that this magical man is going to bring him whatever his little heart desires.
I have a pretty firm stance that I won’t let a child of mine out of 5th grade without making sure they know the truth about Santa (and the basics about sex because let’s face it, who wants to learn about that for the first time from some outdated movie & visiting teacher??). But I’m questioning moving that timeline up a year.
See, he’s asking for some things with ridiculously high price tags. So one way or the other there’s likely to be some disappointment. Also, I’m getting a little tired of the Santa gig. In our house Santa brings you one special gift and stuffs your stocking. As the kids get older that special gift gets more expensive or they feel some pressure to come up with a big special gift even when their desires are simple. My kids don’t need a lot of stuff. I’d rather fulfill their simple but wonderful desires and have some money left over to create some holiday memories. When Santa doesn’t have to bring that one big gift anymore, we can all go to dinner & a show in Chicago… or take a surprise trip… there are so many possibilities!
I’m wrestling with this one. Do I pull him aside and have a heart to heart? Is that fair to him? Do I let him keep believing as long as he can because he’s the baby of the family? It was much easier when they were all this age:
While in the Smoky Mountains, visiting the top of Clingman’s Dome (the highest peak this side of the Mississippi at 6600 feet) was at the top of our list. The weather wasn’t terribly cooperative the first few days with ice and snow keeping the roads closed. However on our last day in the park – and just two days before the road to the Dome closes for the season – the road was open by late morning. We headed up in the afternoon with thoughts of watching the sun set from the mountain top.
The drive up was amazing.
And then about a half mile from the top a thick cloud rolled in. Visibility was less than .10 of a mile. This was our view from the top:
From the bottom of the mountain to the top, the temp dropped nearly 20 degrees, the wind picked up and the cloud descended. It wasn’t the sunset view we had in mind but it was a pretty cool experience. When we got back down the mountain, the snow was gone and we actually ate dinner outside.
Oh what a difference a few miles can make when you’re in the mountains.
It’s appropriate that I took my kids on a new adventure over Thanksgiving because I am so very, very thankful that I’ve been able to take them…
hiking in the Colorado mountains
scrambling around the cave dwellings of Mesa Verde
driving through the Painted Desert
exploring the Grand Canyon
viewing the vistas of the Pacific Ocean
experiencing L.A. traffic
enjoying the wonders of the Hoover Dam
sightseeing along the Vegas strip at night
climbing Bryce Canyon
scrambling the rocks at Arches National Park
wandering along the trails and dunes of Lake Michigan
walking across the Mackinac Bridge
biking around Mackinac Island
to the top of the Arch in St. Louis
learning in Chicago’s great museums and parks and zoos
splashing at the top and bottom of Niagara Falls
exploring countless battlefields from both the Revolutionary & Civil Wars including Yorktown & Gettysburg
back in time at Williamsburg
living in a beach house on the shores of the Atlantic Ocean
climbing the rocks of the Badlands
underground in amazing caves like Mammoth Cave & Cave of the Winds
viewing Mount Rushmore
exploring Devil’s Tower
hiking the trails and canyons and geyser paths of Yellowstone
tramping up and down the trails of Glacier National Park and driving along the one-of-a-kind Going to the Sun Road
rafting down the Snake River in the shadow of the Tetons
scrambling up to the top of a lava cone from a long ago volcano at Craters of the Moon National Park
whitewater rafting in West Virginia
canoeing, kayaking, hiking & exploring in countless parks
and more that I’m sure I’m forgetting…
And now I can add living on top of a mountain in the Smoky Mountains; exploring the valleys of Smoky Mountain National Park and its highest peaks.
We’ve been on some amazing adventures and we’d probably like to revisit many of them again. However, the beautiful trails of Smoky Mountain National Park will always be towards the top of the list. I was worried about the logistics of our mountain Thanksgiving. It turned out to be awesome. Our families of 10 crowded around the table to eat our favorite holiday dishes. We played lots of games. Took a few adventures. And created memories we’ll have forever.
Thanksgiving is next week – NEXT WEEK! It’s been a busy month around here so it almost feels like it snuck up on me. The fact that it will be December when I get back from our Thanksgiving… well that’s a little mind blowing. It’s funny how the months can zoom past while the days drag on (every day has felt like Thursday this week – it’s been a neverending week). So here’s what I’m thankful for this week before I get caught up in all the turkey day preparations.
The grin on my son’s face as he cheered on his teammates in last night’s spell bowl
Finding time for short runs every day – runs that lift my spirits even as they freeze my face
Family dinner conversations & laughter
Watching 20, 8/9 year old kids close their eyes and pray for the recipients of their shoebox gifts (don’t tell them I watched, we were supposed to have our eyes closed!)
because life is hectic and we've got a schedule to keep damn it.